How to Change Your Environment and Your Life!

A powerful tool to use in your pursuit of success and happiness is the analysis of your current environment. Do your friends support you? Who do you surround yourself with more; negative or positive people? Are you happy while at work and home? These questions play a huge part in analyzing your environment. Generally people are a reflection of their surroundings. What are you reflecting, and is it time for a change? My Friends are not supportive and negative, but they are my Friends! It is Read more [...]

What Kind of DIVA Are You? (Quiz)

Quiz: What Kind of DIVA Are You? 1. You're a doctor. Which career would you pursue? A. Work to build your own private practice B. Teach at a medical school so your medical theories and practices would affect a large number of future doctors. 2. What opportunity is more appealing? A. You are asked to join the board of a promising start-up company B. You are asked to write a monthly column for an influential magazine. 3. Which accomplishment would give you greater satisfaction? A. Read more [...]

It’s Hard For People To Be Happy For Your Success

How happy are you when your best friend gets a book deal or a $10,000 dollar raise? You are and you aren't happy. It's not so much that you truly resent her success or would snatch it from her, but when somebody near you gets fame and money, you have to think, What about me? Success happening to people you don't know is much easier to bear! Just accept that, aside from your husband, boyfriend, mother or other special people in your life, most of your friends are going to get that sinking feeling Read more [...]

Don’t Be Your Own Best Friend!

I think unconditional love is what a mother feels for her baby, and not what you should feel for yourself. Author Margaret Halsey said in an interview once: "The [false] idea that inside every human being, however unprepossessing, there is a glorious, talented and overwhelmingly attractive personality. Nonsense. Inside each of us is a mess of unruly, primitive impulses and these can sometimes, under the strenuous, self-discipline and dedication to art, result in notable creativity." I couldn't Read more [...]

Be Encouraged-There Is Less Competition Than You Think

Does it seem like there is a huge chasm between you and the acheivers--all those people making so much money already and you there in your little worker-bee job that you think you'll never cross the gap? Let's calm down and look ahead for a second--people will need you in big jobs, so just give yourself time to get there. There is nothing, nothing but room at the top... the bottom is where the mobs are. Headhunters charge large companies thousands of dollars monthly merely to try to find good Read more [...]